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        <![CDATA[ A week ago my aunt&#39;s husband died. Now she and her kids are coming over here I guess to escape the memories of their house for 2 days. How are you supposed
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: How are you supposed to talk to a widow?  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <p>Was he a burner or a dumper?</p> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Widows love it when their best friend&#39;s husband comes over to help with &quot;manly&quot; things and then offers to give it to her good. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ You guys are so insensitive.
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Rent <em>Bambi</em> for the kiddies. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ The Sixth Sense ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Make sure and set a place for him at the table, they&#39;ll appreciate that. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Look over her shoulder towards the car and ask, &quot;Tom couldn&#39;t make it?&quot; ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I hear you&#39;re free this weekend. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ You got any plans for Saturday night?
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ It&#39;s a fact that all widows are hard of hearing, so talking as loud as you can will help. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ was it sudden? ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">SmrtAss wrote:</strong>
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  I hate the he&#39;s in a better place thing!
</blockquote>

<p> I guess it depends on the woman he&#39;s leaving behind....I know my uncle was definitely in a better place after death did them part. But either way, best
not to say it to her face. Yet.</p> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I hate the he&#39;s in a better place thing! Say you&#39;re sorry and then stfu if you have nothing to offer but trite platitudes. This is a pet peeve of mine.
So DON&#39;T say any of the following:
<br>
<br>
1. He/she is in a better place.
<br>
2. Everything happens for a reason.
<br>
3. It was God&#39;s will.
<br>
4. He&#39;s going to burn in Hell since he didn&#39;t know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. (OK, maybe say that one.)
<br>
<br>
Say you&#39;re sorry, and don&#39;t say... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Tell her you slept with him. Anger is the best medicine.
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Skipping right to second base usually helps. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Act normal. Take her cue- if she indicates that she wants to talk about her husband, let her talk. If not, just go for gentle, normal chitchat. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Get it over with right at the beginning - say you&#39;re sorry, that he&#39;s in a better place blah blah blah. I think it&#39;ll be less awkward that way.
Then try acting normal, take them out, distract them etc. Oh, and if you&#39;re renting movies, make sure nobody dies in them! ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ A week ago my aunt&#39;s husband died. Now she and her kids are coming over here I guess to escape the memories of their house for 2 days. How are you supposed
to act in their company? Do you say sorry or do you not bring it up? Do you act normal??? I don&#39;t want it to be awkward.
<br> ]]></description>

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