What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (BlackCatTux) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 11:14:10 GMT

"the parts that make me a bit leery are how he doesn't like when she talks to other friends, or when she tries to talk to him, he apparently gets extremely defensive and turns it all back on her and makes her feel like shit."

Isolating the victim from other friends is one of the warning signs of an abuser.

Even if he isn't an abuser, he's a jerk. She should dump him and look for something better.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Jakob Speed) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 09:05:40 GMT

if SI stands for self important, yeah.

Sardonic was prolly being sarcastic, or you lie.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Strange Flute) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 08:51:39 GMT

Sorry to disappoint you, Jako. But Sardonically Irrelevant said I was one of the funniest posters at OT, so I'm probably SI as well.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Jakob Speed) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 08:42:01 GMT

Castle Argh/Yahoo Seriously/Strange Fruit/Postcard Skye/Urban Center/Pretzeldential

Honestly, can nature REALLY create more than one genetic mistake this pathetic.

They have to be one 'tard.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Shag) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:48:07 GMT

PS was male, allegedly. Yeah, they had a board where only the two of them were allowed to post. It was hysterical.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Jakob Speed) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:43:53 GMT

Postcard Skye? Wasn't that the female version of UC?

Always asking contrived questions with the end result of boring the shit out of people with her views?

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Jakob Speed) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:36:33 GMT

Psychological abuse only works on saps. Ditch the bitch as a friend. There are plenty of other people to hang with.

If anything like physical abuse happens.... a serious bone breaking injury to the dude is usually the quickest resolution.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (merkyl) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:35:37 GMT

Does anyone else remember SF's weirdly abusive internet relationship with Postcard Skye?

Didn't they have some board where it was just them talking to each other?

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Strange Flute) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:34:28 GMT

Was I abusing or being abused? Or both.

If Jit is actually her friend, it would explain Jit's lesbian porn habit.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (unkle greggo) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:32:08 GMT

Strange Flute wrote:
My advice would be to find a healthy outlet for both of their problems. Invest in some S&M gear and get busy.

Nasty visual! Nasty visual! Flute owns a gimp suit!!

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Shag) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:29:30 GMT

Does anyone else remember SF's weirdly abusive internet relationship with Postcard Skye?

I think the person Jit's describing is not just a take-charge dude.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Strange Flute) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:26:50 GMT

Maybe she's looking for a man with a pussy.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (The Balloon Artist) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:21:40 GMT

Strange Flute wrote:
To be honest, it didn't sound like he was doing anything terribly abusive. He is the man and men tend to take charge and be controlling. It's not going to be much different with other men.

They start slowly and work their way up. Yes, other men are different without being gay.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Strange Flute) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:18:27 GMT

To be honest, it didn't sound like he was doing anything terribly abusive. He is the man and men tend to take charge and be controlling. It's not going to be much different with other men.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (merkyl) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:16:13 GMT

Maybe she's still wearing ribbons in her hair.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Hamdingers) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:15:42 GMT

Sweet. I've got a good 4 more bitchslaps to administer before I have to figure out how to use the iron.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (PassionatePiscesMan) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:15:05 GMT

Chicks want their man to be "in charge"

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (The Balloon Artist) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:13:46 GMT

Women will leave a abuser an average of 8 times before making a final break.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Buggles73) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:10:27 GMT

She sounds like a fat drama magnet.

My wife has one of those & i hate her fat guts.

Re: What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (CBRetriever) — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:14:16 GMT

Some people aren't happy unless they're bitching and moaning - my mother always complained about my father (not for being verbally or in anyway abusive), but she didn't outlive him by much.

What constitutes verbal/emotional abuse?

feeds@yuku.com (Jitensha) — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 22:06:15 GMT

How do you judge this?

My friend won't stop bitching about her boyfriend being controlling and making her cry all the time, but I want to know if I should be worried or tell her to shut the hell up and stop being a gigantic baby.