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In all honesty who of us would book a trip and buy tickets without finalizing all the details with our spouse. He did pay for it and that is why that annoying gay friend Mueller, his dad and his childhood friend went - because the tickets were paid for. He had to find someone to replace Amy, Molly and Zac.

That said, you do not polarize your children over the deal - you pay the fees to make the changes. Yes, I would be pissed if my spouse finalized and put money down on a vacation without finalizing it with me - these are things a couple do together. I think some of Amy's frustration is that Matt just moves forward and already has his heart set on something without that group disussion and consent. Once her input is asked for - or she asks WTH are you doing - the decisions have already been made or he is so invested in his idea or position that it isn't a discussion. It turns into more of Matt saying here is the deal and expecting her to jump for joy and buy in. So if Amy wants to talk about the money or timing or any aspect of it then it is an arguement with Matt defending his position. Such as some of the projects on the farm - he is so set on his plan by the time he reveals it to her that any input or question is an arguement and not a planning discussion together. Some with this vacation and some with his retirement plans. That farm and their speaking engagements ar not paying for all these trips and I think it is prudent for them to realize that the money from the show wont last forever - somebody, and it seems to be Amy, has to say whoa we can't spend thousands of dollars on a play castle 10 years too late. Or when he showed her the retirement homes her thought was we just spent all this money on this farm and she said we can't even begin to afford those homes. It is tough on a marriage when the partners are not on the same financial page.

That said, Matt is fun and you can see Amy has loved that in the past - all the wacky plans and adventures would be fun to an extent. She has also obviously been a bit of a martyr about it all. She is the same with the kids - she loves all their fun and would rather gripe about being taken for granted than make those kids pitch in and do some chores.

So Matt is going to do whatever the hell he wants and gets over invested in his point of view. Amy is always going to act taken for granted and she likes it. They are polarizing their spoiled and basically useless children. Oh and I don't really are that they are short.