i just want to give Catelynn and Tyler a bunch of money so they can move far, far, far away from their totally toxic parents. those "parents" make me
sad. these kids seem to have good heads on their shoulders and these tard parents just want them to end up like the trainwrecks they are.
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Posts: 1574 (12/09/09 03:28 AM) Registered User |
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Posts: 2928 (12/09/09 10:38 AM) Registered user |
I actually wanted to scream at Catelynn and Tyler after the doctor's appointment when they revealed that hadn't been using protection. Sure let's
have unprotected sex then lie to the doctor about it so you can avoid a lecture and taking a pregnancy test. That's real maturity for you.
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pinkdolphin |
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Posts: 9819 (12/09/09 11:37 AM) Registered User |
redkramer77 wrote: My sister had a baby when she was 21 - she lived at home my parents paid for most of everything, diapers, formula all kinds of stuff. She FINALLY moved out - instead of getting a small one bedroom, she shared a three bedroom w/a friend and bought a new car. The friendship is over (because she is an entitled little brat) and she moved back home. Guess what! She is pregnant again. With a different baby daddy - that she barely knows. It is like she is redoing what she has done already and never learned from her mistakes. The parents that baby their kids - end up ruining them in the end. |
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Posts: 10577 (12/09/09 01:49 PM) has no presence anymore |
Council Bluffs, eh KM? You're 3 hours west of me.
Anyway, Farrah's preoccupation with dating kinda got me. I know she's still a teen and all but she has a baby now. Time to rethink your priorities. |
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KMKinCB |
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Posts: 33 (12/09/09 02:08 PM) |
2ManyAndersons wrote:So you must be a little east of Des Moines? |
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2ManyAndersons |
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Posts: 10579 (12/09/09 03:04 PM) has no presence anymore |
Actually, West Des Moines. I just estimated it at 3 hours.
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KMKinCB |
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Posts: 34 (12/09/09 07:41 PM) |
2ManyAndersons wrote: Oh cool, lol. |
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MMMadcow |
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Posts: 7241 (12/10/09 05:48 PM) Registered User |
Wow, I'm from Omaha. Just over from Council Bluffs. We used to hit up the strip clubs in CB. And some crazy ass rock club, too. I can't remember the
name of it. A million years ago.
2Many- I graduated from a high school in Iowa. Small world. |
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BigBrothrFan |
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Posts: 715 (12/10/09 06:06 PM) Registered user |
I actually like Farrah <3
I find her the most entertaining to watch |
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Brooke276 |
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Posts: 730 (12/15/09 09:52 PM) |
DIE FARRAH.............that is all. Damn, I hate this chick.
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redkramer77 |
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Posts: 2566 (12/15/09 11:26 PM) Registered User |
Was she seriously trying to make excuses for why she is barely around her daughter. School and a job is one thing, but to just go out whenever she feels like
it to have fun is another. I don't have kids but I do understand that you are going to miss a bunch of important moments, and in this case it is to spent
time with douche bags that she won't even know in a few weeks. I am single and in my mid-twenties and I try to spend as much time with my niece and nephew
as possible because I love being there for the little things (like my niece learning my dogs name before mine). I am also starting to hate Amber, I feel like
she makes things harder than they have to be. You can't study, move to another room where there isnt a baby death trap, study in the baby's room, move
the damn table.
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Posts: 100 (12/16/09 08:21 AM) |
What upsets me the most about this show is that not a single one of the young women seem to be receiving counseling. Amber is taking an antidepressant but
doesn't seem to be getting follow-up care. The postpartum depression is quite obvious and all she's received is a band aid in terms of
"fixing" it.
Farrah's thinking in terms of dating is very common in certain parts of the US. She made the comment about not wanting to remain a single mother for very long. Her dating is just her way of trying to find a daddy for her daughter. Is it right? Not really but the question is :Does she really know any better? I was in my late twenties when I had my child without her father. One of my hospital visitors actually tried to fix me up on a date with someone she knew, stating that he was "perfect daddy material". My child was fourteen hours old at the time. (And no, I did not accept the offer for another three years.) Farrah needs therapy to work on her self esteem issues. I'm happy to see that Maci left her loser boyfriend but she made a comment about Bentley someday calling another man "daddy". If her family isn't careful she'll be going down the same road as Farrah. She needs to work on her self esteem too. Catelynn and Tyler need to leave that town and start all over. Their parents are poison. They made one of the hardest decisions that anyone could ever make but have yet to receive any praise for doing so. They seem to be good for each other but both need therapy to work on numerous issues, including issues with their parents and the adoption. Mtv could easily pay for therapy for each of them. They need to do so, instead of watching them flounder about. I could see every last one of the girls, Catelynn included, pregnant again within two years unless someone comes forward and teaches them how to break the cycle. I know that some want to see them fail, to hold them up as an example teen pregnancy. I'd prefer to see them succeed and prove that obstacles are made to be overcome. |
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pinkdolphin |
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Posts: 9855 (12/16/09 10:14 AM) Registered User |
Great post! I agree. It is sad that they think they have to find a 'daddy' right away. I was a single mom for awhile and pretty much was on my own for
two years. I tried dating, but the guys my age were not ready to be an instant parent and I could understand - but my child came first and it stayed that way.
A lot of girls I knew growing up who had an abortion - ended up getting pregnant right after. I don't know if it was the guilt or what... but I fear that that is what Catelynn will end up doing. Getting pregnant to replace the baby she lost. Hopefully not. |
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meatball77 |
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Posts: 13795 (12/16/09 12:48 PM) Registered user |
Catelynn got the Merina IUD when they went in for that appointment. She's solid and can't accidentally get pregnant until that thing comes out.
I see the "must have a man" thing with a lot of the mom's I've known in the internet mom world. They date looking for a husband and end up with the first guy that will stay with them regardless of if they treat them badly, it's worse to be alone than to be with someone that's shitty. It's the whole reason that Maci is with her boyfriend. Carly's situation creeps me out. Her mothers attitude that the adoption is terrible combined with them acting like the adoptive parents are just babysitting instead of acknowledging that they are now the child's parents and not her bothers me. They're from right around where I live, I get my pizza by that tattoo parlor. The kids all foist their babies off on others all the time. It amazes me that their families enable them so much. Having a sitter with your kids when you're in school or at work is one thing but the rest of the time (outside of an occasional friday night out) the child should be with you. |
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Jellybelly71 |
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Posts: 1593 (12/16/09 12:57 PM) Registered User |
i think Amber has it the hardest of all of them - Gary is a fat fucking slug and if he actually moved 3 feet in any direction, i certainly never saw it.
Maci seems to be headed towards something better and Bentley seems like her priority. Ryan is a fucking douchebag. i wanted to karate chop him in the nuts last night. Farrah is totally enabled by her crazy ass mother. those two do not need to be living together. she sees her mom as a built in babysitter and the mom does it but bitches about it. yeah, that's a great environment to raise a baby. i bet Amber would kill to have Farrah's "problems." Catelynn and Tyler just break my heart. their "parents" should be shot and then they can live off the life insurance money. they seem like good kids, but they just need to get away from those people. |
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Posts: 2567 (12/16/09 01:28 PM) Registered User |
i think Amber has it the hardest of all of them - Gary is a fat fucking slug and if he actually moved 3 feet in any direction, i certainly never saw it. Gary is a fat fuck but he doesnt bother me. He has a job and seems to work all day. He is supporting his family. I am not saying that he doesn't have to do anything to help with the baby, but she is home all day it is her job to deal with the baby. She just needs to figure out ways to get out of the house. |
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Mistopheles |
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Posts: 538 (12/16/09 02:09 PM) |
At least Gary stuck around, shows that he loves her and the baby. Ryan is a selfish jerk and where is Farrah's baby daddy? Whatever happened to the
couple where one went into the armed services and the other one had to give up her dream of the armed forces for the baby? I would love to see what happened
to them. Just love Catelynn and Tyler.
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Brooke276 |
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Posts: 731 (12/16/09 02:25 PM) |
I think Farrah's baby daddy is dead, isn't he????
Catelynn and Tyler, who used to be my favorites are on my last fucking nerve. I agree with the post above about this whole thing creeeping them out. They need to STEP BACK. They are too young I believe to fully realize that when they gave Carly up, that meant that she was gone. The adoptive parents can have a relationship with her, but Carly is THEIR baby now. This pining is something that is understandable but the stalking part is starting to bug me. I compare it to a teenager that commits suicide. I truly believe that teens do not realize that dead is dead forever. This is the same case. Adoption means she is no longer in your care, and you need to allow her to live her life. If the parents do not want to disclose the information, they do not have to. You signed the papers. It is not Brandon & Teresa's fault that you two got knocked up as kids. And I GUARANTEE that one of these bitches will be pregnant again before the end of the season. I think Maci is smart enough, but the other three??? |
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Jellybelly71 |
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Posts: 1596 (12/16/09 03:15 PM) Registered User |
i think Catelynn and Tyler are handling it as best they can - given their upbringings it is a miracle they are as level headed as they are - they are in an
emotional tailspin and have no one else to lean on - i totally agree they need to let Carly go, but no one is helping them and they are only what, 16 or 17?
Catelynn's mother and Tyler's father are fucktards of the highest order, and if they can't turn to their parents, they really are screwed. they were a little annoying, but when i look at the big picture of what they are dealing with, i can't hate them. now Farrah on the other hand, her i can hate. |
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Posts: 101 (12/16/09 10:32 PM) |
I really think that one of the girls will get pregnant again. Amber and Gary-probably not enough money to even spend on birth control. (I know-depends on the
state. Some states offer better health care programs than others. In my state women get kicked off of medical assistance six weeks after giving birth and then
people wonder why these same women are pregnant in a years' time.) Farrah-she might just do it on purpose, to "keep her man". Maci-we'll see
how it goes for her. She made that comment about Bentley calling another man "Daddy" and that has me worried about her. It just depends on if she
starts dating so soon after she and Ryan have broken up. Catelynn and Tyler-I'm really worried about them. Once the reality of Carly really hits I could
see them purposely trying to have another baby. They might have a second to replace the first. Saddest part of that scenario is that I could see their parents
being quite happy with the situation.
I still say that every single one of the young women, their boyfriends and their families all need counseling. IMO, it's the only way they will be able to rise above and have real futures for themselves. Oh, and I see that no one made a comment about Farrah's sister. What she said to Farrah was true but damn if I didn't want to smack the smirk off her face. She seems like the type that enjoys saying shitty things to people just to watch their reactions. That conversation should have taken place off-camera. I just felt like she enjoyed plunging the knife and then twisting it in. It's obvious that Farrah wants out of the house. Why doesn't someone suggest activities that she and Sophia can do together outside of the home? (My daughter and I were involved in playgroups, in Mommy and Me, etc. And the groups start at a very early age.) She's a kid with a kid of her own. She needs to be around other young mothers in order to understand what is appropriate behavior. Once she realizes how much fun she can have bonding with her child she might be less likely to go out all the time. (I say less likely-we can't guarantee that she wouldn't be exactly the same.) It's just a thought. |
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