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The thing is, what she was doing was not the "hard to get" game. That involves a clear purpose from the start - gently forcing him to slowly get her to become more interested in him (or so he thinks). It's a matter of having the guy think he is in charge, that his charms are winning the girl over. And it's also a challenge for the girl - she must also slowly open up to him, matching (and sometimes leading) his moves. His confessionals are of a girl he wants to get to know better, that is opening up to him, that maybe she wants him but is worried about being to forward. And when they do kiss the guy must think that he was the one who moved her so much that she wanted - desperately! - to kiss him.

It's a game. If she played it, she did it the way Gallagher played a watermelon. She was the queen of mixed signals, but they added up to something different than she expected. "I don't want to kiss you until there's a ring, but I can touch and feel and grope you all I want... and I'll talk about kisses every time we talk, and here's another grope for good measure." Whatever game that is, it isn't hard to get. It was more, "I'm a skank, but you can't touch me until I say so, and I can get you aroused and you can't do anything about it."

Jake isn't nearly the vanilla milquetoast guy I expected. Just tossing a girl in the middle of a date? Good on you. Dumping Elizabeth? Smart. Burning a rose next week? I like that - the guy is quiet, but he seems to realize that he's in charge of this shindig, and the producers really are at his mercy. He wants to toss more girls than the Rose Ceremony calls for? He's gonna do it. He ain't John Wayne. More Gary Cooper.