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unduli clone wrote:

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Maybe if more people saw nudity at a young age we wouldn't have to worry about all the pregnant 15 year olds.

Zzunk wrote:

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I'm going to stick up for Scruffy and say that single men should avoid being in questionable situations involving an underage kid. A totally innocent man could be accused of a glance (like the thread starter) that is immediately interpreted as a stare. So many of the sexual molestors are men, many are single or have terrible relationships, that all other men can be easily grouped as the same if the circumstances are questionable. I will not change the diapers of any kid that is more than 1 year old. I will not help a friend or family member's kid if they need someone to take them to a bathroom. I will not help them get dressed, except to tie their shoes. I will never harm a kid, but more importantly, I will never put myself in a situation that could remotely make me look suspicious. It seems heartless, but my reputation is 10 times more important than some kid having a dirty diaper.

percadans wrote:

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Zzunk wrote:

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I'm going to stick up for Scruffy and say that single men should avoid being in questionable situations involving an underage kid. A totally innocent man could be accused of a glance (like the thread starter) that is immediately interpreted as a stare. So many of the sexual molestors are men, many are single or have terrible relationships, that all other men can be easily grouped as the same if the circumstances are questionable. I will not change the diapers of any kid that is more than 1 year old. I will not help a friend or family member's kid if they need someone to take them to a bathroom. I will not help them get dressed, except to tie their shoes. I will never harm a kid, but more importantly, I will never put myself in a situation that could remotely make me look suspicious. It seems heartless, but my reputation is 10 times more important than some kid having a dirty diaper.

I agree. That's why this bothers me. A few years ago I used to coach my daughters basketball team. One night after practice all the parents picked up their kids except this one little girl. She was probably 10. My wife took our daughter home and I stuck around waiting for this kids dad to pick her up. Another coach told me I had to let this girl walk home. It's pitch black out it's cold as hell and I'm supposed to let this kid walk home. I actually thought about giving her a ride but the other coach said you can't do that. We were eventually able to get a hold of her mother who picked her up. But your right. You can't put yourself in those situations.

  

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r wrote:

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This makes me think you are a pedo.  It is, as if, you don't trust yourself in those situations. The last thing that would go through my mind seeing a diaper get changed or changing one myself is that it is somehow a sexual act.  Your brain is wired wrong.

A long-time friend of mine was/is a pedo -- he got caught,  convicted and served big time in prison.  We, his friends, were stunned to found out about the number and ages of his victims.  He was always the friendliest guy around kids, hugged them like a family member, etc.  Although he was sincere about it, it was his way of luring kids to trust him.  I tell everyone I know to keep their kids away from men that are too willing to show affection and attention for another's kids.  And now that I know how those predators operate, I make sure I'm a never going to be a suspect (since I'm single), even if it means I come across as avoiding kids.  It's not worth "helping" some kid if there is a more qualified, blood relative around.  It's basically the same philosophy of staying on a lighted street, rather than take the short cut through the dark alley.