SurvivorFanGP wrote:
Was that the one with Hillary Swank? I think i've seen it.

No. Hilary Swank starred in "Boys Don't Cry", in which she played Brandon Teena, who was actually born a woman named Teena Brandon.

"Soldier's Girl" was a made-for-Showtime movie, and starred Lee Pace (of "Pushing Daisies") as Calpernia:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0324013/