"I used to love being able to say: "Why? It's not like we can get married or anything" when trying to break it off quick and easy.

Now what? I have no weapons at my disposal. "

My dad has been divorced twice. He's a hard guy to live with; I'm surprised that my step mother puts up with him!

When he and my mom divorced he told me how hard it was. He could ignore a lot of it most of the time, but then a lawyer would call or he'd have to discuss financial matters with mom. I told him one of the great things about being gay is that getting divorced can be as easy as "Get your shit together and get out now."

I'm happy for this additional complication. Everyone cross your fingers that by the time Foo and I get out there that we will still be allowed to get married.