Oh I'm not saying it's not the guys fault, you were the person that placed the blame squarely on his shoulders. I think they're both irresosponsible idiots. But I think that contraceptives are moreso the responsibility of the woman. She's the one that carries the baby, she's the one that has the choice of aborting it, she can easily say "No pussy 'til you put on a condom."

Is the guy stupid for not wearing a condom if she wasn't on the pill, well yeah. But she's butt fucking stupid for not taking the pill, and then having unprotected sex.

I love this response though "stop trying to act like you know shit." From now on we will all stop acting like we know shit.