Beefcake wrote:
Yup, I do the same thing. And so do the women I date -- one wouldn't date me because I don't play golf(!) And I suppose if men and women are both being so critical, things just get exponentially more difficult. I think that the more women I date, the pickier I get. I start thinking "Hey, I haven't waited this long and worked so hard just to settle for someone who isn't absolutely amazing."

PS: Never marry a guy under 30 -- we need time to grow up.
image I've learned that recently. I'm 25 and all my ex-boyfriends have been only 1-2 years older than me and they all pretty much sucked. I'm going 30-35 from now on.