Sometimes Kate's attitude is grating and shrill. But if she wasn't so anally organized and forceful, it would be utter chaos, even with laundry and cleaning help. I think her choices of what to get help with are good - she gets help with the manual labor and spends more time with her kids, rather than pawning the kids off on a sitter or someone to take them outside while she cleans. I had a fraction of the number of kids as she has and had involvement of family and still had days that I wanted to run away!

















