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As an observer of abuse who tried to save my darling sister involved with no luck.. I say watch for serious warning signs, grow some balls, speak with the authorities even if it pisses off the person you love.

I did all of the above and still lost my sister to cervical cancer from the stinking HPV given to her by her nasty, controlling, abusive, unfaithful husband who showed all the signs, but never paid for his horrible abuse even though she died. Yep. That disease that they NOW have a fucking cure for, killed her. But this asshole.. he hit her. He hit his kids. He destroyed her possessions and self esteem. He fucked around and gave her a disease that killed her. I testified because I saw it happen. I saw that and so much more.. but the judge wouldn't take their kids from him.

I still pray he dies a horrible death.. and I still curse the fucking doctors who kept telling my sister she "Just had a venereal disease", and prescribed antibiotics for 5 months when it was really cancer caused by that fucking asshole. We knew it was something worse. She was suffering terribly. She was one of the first case studies when they figured out the cause of her cancer.

He has custody of their 3 kids. I don't know where they are... I've looked, but I can't find them. I haven't seen them in 9 years.

Talk with family and friends. Talk with the police. Don't stay quiet. Do whatever you can. I really miss my sister.

I want to edit my answer somewhat after re-reading it.

Talk with family and friends. Talk with the police. Don't stay quiet. Do whatever you can. I really miss my sister.

For sure keep an open dialog with family and friend.. but only talk with police if YOU KNOW ABUSE is occurring. (and hopefully have physical evidence.. which I never had) Getting evidence is a good thing.