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Okay, it's been almost 3 months since I've gotten laid - not because I'm some hideous ogre which I'm really not... but because there's nowhere to look (the net is full of creepos, and none of them seem to meet my standards). The only hunting grounds are the gay clubs... or in the case of my city of more than one million people, gay club (Hate it!). Problem is I'm paranoid about looking like a loser going to a club alone. I go with friends, but never have any luck when that happens. I get looks all the time, but it never amounts to anything: a) cause my friends are always near, and even worse b) I don't want to look like a total slut by ditching them and walking out of there with some guy at the end of the night. And one more thing, I'm attracted to older guys (30-45) so walkin' out of the club with one of them at the end of the night is sure to rouse up some nasty comments by my friends. The only solution is that I go alone - which I've never done before. I never go alone anywhere. Does it spell "pathetic loser" if I do? Anyone else ever do it? At this point, I'm willing to go for it... cause I really need to get laid. And before anyone jumps in with the "slut" attack; I am really not a slut (the fact that I've been sex-free for 3 months should show it).